Dogs, Dolphins, and Differences

On a recent beach vacation, the opportunity presented itself to go on a dolphin cruise.  I’m glad I was part of the trio of friends who embarked on this adventure.

As we got onboard, our captain asked what we wanted the 4 hours to be—snorkel, dolphins, shells, or swimming?  We picked dolphins and shells.  As we sped away from land, the search for dolphins was first on the list.  There was the occasional sea turtle and some fish in that turquoise see-through water. 

When we happened on a fisherman with two dogs in his boat, it was apparent something was in the water because spotted dog would not stop jumping around and barking over the edge of the boat.  Our boat stopped and we watched as the dolphin would jump up to the side of the fisherman’s boat.  After about three jumps up, the dolphin stayed up, the dog came to the boat’s edge and licked the dolphin on his spout/nose or whatever that pointed part of the dolphin is called.  The dolphin swam quickly around the fisherman’s boat and came back up to visit his new friend.  The dog again licked the dolphin.  Dolphin had some happy moves as he swam fast and came a bit closer to our boat. Just as quick as he said hi to us, he was back over to see the dog.

Dogs and dolphins sure look different.  Dogs and dolphins have very different living arrangements.  Dogs and dolphins probably have very different food sources.  With all those differences, the world stood still long enough for our trio to watch the dog and the dolphin look at one another, have some fun, and even give a warm hello. 

With all the differences in the world today among people of all walks, maybe we could learn something from the dog and the dolphin and perhaps learn from our differences.  

#wedidfindshells                 #taketimetolearn             #wfacf 940-766-0829

Being Outdoors


Growing up in the country with a houseful of siblings and lots of cousins on both sides of the family was fun.  God only knows how we escaped major bodily injuries when I think back on all the antics, e.g. walking across the log that had fallen over the rising creek, tearing up the beaver dams, swimming in the creek after having dropped from the grapevine, jumping from the hay loft onto the barn floor, the list goes on!

What made me think of this today?  I went by a school during lunch time and there weren’t children out playing.  It’s 80 degrees, sun is shining brightly—where were the children?  Was it too early, too late, too muddy (it’s been raining)? 

What I know is that kids and adults need outdoors in large doses.  I believe that when there is rain and mud then it’s a great time for mud pies.  I recently bought granddaughter sidewalk paints—were those for her or me?    Colored toothpicks were always on the shelf at my house—everyone needs to have toothpick races on a rainy day.  When there is sand or water, my toes need to be in the sand and the water beckons every minute I’m around it.

I hope recess is still a great part of school, that outdoor play helps make up each child’s life, and adults never lose their kid part that needs outdoors.

#outdoors    #wfacf  940-766-0829

Hearts and HOPE


I saw a sign once that read, “When you become a mother, your heart moves outside your body and you are never the same.”  I am writing this from a mother’s perspective and want to be sensitive to all the fathers out there.  I can’t write this from a father’s perspective but I’d imagine there are a great many similarities.  I know that my heart lives with my three children, the spouses who helped bring my three grandchildren’s hearts to life, and the “growing too fast” grandchildren.

I am friends with several mothers who have lost children way too soon in their children’s young lives.  My heart hurts for these mothers each year when a birthday or other special days come around bringing with those days a flood of feelings, perhaps a bit more healing, and a lot of memories. 

I do not know the mother of #24Strong Robert Grays.  I cannot begin to feel what she is feeling right now upon losing her son at age 19 because of an injury that occurred during a college football game last Saturday 9/16/17.

I only know what this mother feels for Robert’s mother and all the mothers who have lost children.  I feel sad, sympathetic, empathic, loving, and hopeful.  My heart is heavy for Robert’s entire family.  My heart is sad for the University that I love.  My heart is sympathetic and empathetic to Robert’s fellow football team, classmates, professors, administrators who have the charge to carry on and be hopeful for better days to come—never forgetting Robert—but being better for having known this young man and all he represented. 

Each day of any of our lives is truly a gift. Love every day.  Hug your babies, no matter their ages.  Hug your babies’ babies.  When given the gift of life, cherish all the moments and fill each day with hope for tomorrow.

#24Strong  #MSUtexas   #mothershearts

Stronger Now Because of You


Last Thursday, September 7, 2017, the second annual Texoma Gives was held to benefit 200 nonprofits in 11 counties in Northern Texas and Southern Oklahoma.  The results were outstanding.  While the world watched Harvey’s devastation, the wildfires raging in the northwest, and Irma approaching the Eastern United States, one could hardly think of anything else.  However, donors knew the value nonprofits’ have in their communities and turned out in large numbers to donate.

Here are the numbers:  $868,483 in total donations and cash prizes to nonprofits; 4,362 donations made; all 200 of the participating nonprofits received donations; 91% of the donations were made online; donations came from 39 states and from 11 countries.  Thank you for believing in nonprofits.

It is in times of disaster and great need that nonprofits’ value to a community can be clearly demonstrated and observed by many.  Strong nonprofits make communities stronger and a better place in which to live and work.  In my years of recruiting professionals, I always talked about nonprofits.  For children there are camps led by nonprofits and activities such as Boy Scouts, Campfire, Girl Scouts, Boys and Girls Clubs, Youth Symphony, Ballet, Community Theatre.  The social amenities brought to a community by nonprofits are many–ballet, arts organizations, theatre, symphony.  Add to all those the  places such as a nature center, animal rescue, environment, food pantries, senior centers, counseling centers, the list goes on and on.  There is great economic impact in the collection of nonprofits in any given area. 

Texoma Gives 2018 hopes to be even bigger. I sure hope that on September 6, 2018, where ever you are that you’ll log on to and donate to a favorite nonprofit participating in 2018 Texoma Gives Day.  Questions about Wichita Falls Area Community Foundation, Burkburnett Legacy Foundation, Texoma Gives? 940-766-0829  #wfacf #texomagives

TG = Thanking God OR Total Gratitude OR Thousands of Givers OR Texoma Gives

                                                      OR  All of the Above


TODAY is the day!  It’s here!  Texoma Gives 2017.  A 16 hour day of on-line giving for 200 nonprofits registered to participate. awaits your click of the keyboard to go online and donate!

Goals for Texoma Gives 2017 are as follows:

200 nonprofits participating      check

$1,000,000 raised in 16 hours  HOPE we’re saying check at 10:15pm on 9/7/17

Donations from all 50 states      FINGERS CROSSED that we say check

2016 results looked like this:

146 nonprofits participated

$750,000 raised in 16 hours

Donations from 38 states

We can do this together, Texoma!  Thanking God with Total Gratitude for having Thousands of Givers making nonprofits stronger on Texoma Gives Day 9/7/17.


#texomagives    #wfacf   940-766-0829


Texoma Gives—day of online giving—is here in SEVEN days!  Texoma Gives is September 7, 2017.  More sevens!  Maybe this is a good sign that seven times more donations will be made than were made in 2016.  Our 2017 goal for donations made online is 6,000…why not make that 7,000?

When your fingers click on at 6am on 9/7/17, here’s hoping that you’ll find nonprofit organizations to which you will donate.  Donating to one is good.  Imagine donating to SEVEN nonprofits.  At a minimum of $25 donation, that would be $175.  There’s something to these sevens.

As you donate on 9/7/17, can you picture the smiles and happy high five’s that nonprofit employees are expressing because generous people are donating and honoring them for the nonprofit’s work.  Donate at to a nonprofit that helps in these ways: Kids will get food for the weekend, pets will be adopted, seniors and shut-in’s will get home delivered meals, children will get a court-appointed advocate, Lawton and Graham’s United Way partner agencies will get needed program dollars, hospital or college foundations will get needed dollars for recruiting and scholarships, the list is endless.

Today as we watch the countless thousands affected by Hurricane Harvey, one truly can see the impact nonprofits have in communities during times of tragedy and disaster. STRONG NONPROFITS make communities stronger and make a difference every single day.  Let’s make our Texoma Gives nonprofits stronger on 9/7/17.

Blessing to you seven times over when you donate to a participating nonprofit on 9/7/17 from 6am to 10pm.

#texomagives  #wfacf  #strongnonprofits  940—766-0829

Total Eclipse

There were no eclipse glasses to be had on my quest to purchase them late in the eclipse mania.  Never fear…on the day of the eclipse, I look out my office window across the parking lot at a group sharing some glasses to get a glimpse of the moon covering the sun. 

Not bashful, I walked across the parking lot and asked if I could use their glasses for a bit and see the wonder in the sky.  I thanked them and walked back to my office.  I shared with office mate that glasses were available across the lot and she too had the joy of seeing the black/orange happening with the generously shared glasses.

On the NASA feed, the sun looked to have a red ring around it.  Wouldn’t it be surreal if that red ring was anger at the moon for blocking the sun’s glory.  Yes—there is something scientific I’m sure, yet that got me to thinking on a Monday about what I was writing on Thursday. 

When our brightness is blocked out, do we get a red ring around us filled with emotions? If the red ring does happen, I hope it’s like the eclipse—the bright was darkened for only two minutes out of a 24 hour day and the beauty and glory returned without a red ring.  Look up, smile, and be filled with gratitude for each day enjoyed on this great earth!

#safetyviewingglasses  #wfacf  #thinkingonthursdays  940—766-0829

When It’s Hot Outside

August has given us some reprieve on hot days and thank goodness there has been some rain.  Last weekend, grandchildren and I went to the community pool.  Both days we got to swim and feel refreshed from the coolness of the water.  Both days we heard the thunder rolling that necessitated exiting the pool.  Pool rules is exit at first sound of thunder, wait 30 minutes and if nothing has developed, one can re-enter the pool.

Both days when we excited the pool, this Grammy said “no waiting for 30 minutes,time for snacks and food at home.”  Such sad faces on two of the grandchildren—they wanted more of the pool frolic and laughter. 

When temperatures hover near 100 degrees for countless days, that heat can sure cause tempers to rise as well as thermometers.  Each one of us has a choice about how we react to the pool closing, hot days, hot tempers, snarled traffic, rude behavior, you name it.  Just as I hope my grandchildren focus on the fun had at the pool instead of the disappointment of their time being cut short, I hope a large majority of those reading this will choose to focus on all the good that is in our communities—whether it’s hot or not!

One great thing to look forward to is Texoma Gives!  This is the second annual Texoma Gives Day with the focus on donating online September 7, 2017 from 6am to 10pm to the nonprofit(s) of your choosing.  You can find joy in promoting the nonprofit(s) of your choosing through social media to your friends encouraging them to consider donating on September 7, 2017 from 6am to 10pm by going to

No worries if you or your friends are out of town on that day and not by a computer.  You can donate using your handheld devices as is a responsive website.  Trouble donating—call 940-766-0829 and we can take the donations over the phone.  It’s hot outside but really cool things are happening.  I hope you are a part of the “coolness” of Texoma Gives.

Our offices are cool.  Drop in and we’ll give you some cool water!   We’re in Parker Square, 2405 Kell Suite 100, Wichita Falls, TX   940-766-0829     #wfacf        #texomagives

It’s Hot

July in Texas is HOT.  As I was coming back from lunch today in my “hot” car, I was sort of complaining to myself about the heat.

Those complaining thoughts can grab you quickly.  I didn’t allow this “hot” complaint to linger.  I remember living in our farm house in Oklahoma with a swamp cooler. I remember when we got the first “refrigerated air” window unit.  I remember when I got my first house with central air conditioning.  Now I have a house that has two air conditioning units.  I am grateful.

There are those who might still have a swamp cooler, hang damp sheets on the open window and let the fan blow through, sleep on the patio or porch where there’s a little air flow.  I remind myself often to be grateful and remember when.

Many nonprofits organizations and for profit businesses help those in need of an electric bill payment, a new fan, or maybe a ride to go deposit check in a bank so an electric bill can be paid.  Remember those nonprofit organizations during these hot summer days.  Donate to them if you can.  Donate fans to re-sale shops or anyone having a fan drive. 

Also please remember Texoma Gives Day on 9/7/17 and donate generously to nonprofits registered to participate on this 16 hour day of giving.  6am to 9pm

Stay cool.!  


#wfacf   940-766-0829    

All 50 States

It was a journey of over 16 years to complete. An adult daughter just barely into her twenties and her mama 26 years older challenged one another to complete the quest of being in all 50 states.

September 11th had happened and everyone, including the daughter and mom, was searching for some happy after tragedy had struck our great USA. Daughter was a flight attendant and mom was starting over in her career. When daughter was furloughed, she and mom traveled to many places with daughter’s airline ticket privilege and mom’s severance package. Each one’s travel bug got fully engaged during this time.

On November 11, 2001, both of them tore out a page from the United Airlines magazine as they were coming back from Hawaii. The map was a centerfold map of the United States. Each marked the states they had encountered. The challenge was struck that day. The guidelines included achieving at least one of three caveats: (1) have a meal (2) spend the night (3) make a memory. Flight attendant daughter couldn’t just land in an airport and call it a visit to that state.

June 29, 2017, daughter and mom flew to Fargo ND and ate a hamburger before they rented the car that would carry them 1,200 miles across Minnesota, Wisconsin, Michigan, Ohio, and West Virginia. Add to those 1,200 miles a ferry ride across Lake Michigan, a morning walk in Lake Michigan, a brat and beer at a Brewer’s baseball game, a one hour shopping spree in Mall of America, a lunch with nephew and cousin, dinner with friend (like family) in Zanesville OH, and a DARK ride in the West Virginia mountains dodging deer on every curve. Whew! They did it and were safely back in Texas on July 3, 2017.

What memories were made in these 5 days. TG, the Texoma Gives character, was traveling with the mom and daughter. Like Texoma Gives on Facebook and you’ll learn TG’s side of the travel story (sunbathing on Grand Haven Beach, Lake Michigan). There will be 12 or 13 posts of the trip in the next few days.